[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.venstar.cz\/dite-jako-modla\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.venstar.cz\/dite-jako-modla\/","headline":"D\u00edt\u011b jako modla","name":"D\u00edt\u011b jako modla","description":"&#13; Pro mnoho rodi\u010d\u016f jed\u00edt\u011b na prvn\u00edm m\u00edst\u011b. V\u00fdchovu d\u011bt\u00ed si p\u0159itom n\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed rodi\u010de pletou s uspokojov\u00e1n\u00edm pot\u0159eb d\u00edt\u011bte. V\u0161imn\u011bte si n\u011bkdy, jak se n\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed rodi\u010de chovaj\u00ed k u\u010ditelk\u00e1m v mate\u0159sk\u00e9 nebo z\u00e1kladn\u00ed \u0161kole. Objektivn\u00ed p\u0159ipom\u00ednka ze strany zku\u0161en\u00e9ho pedagoga je velmi impertinentn\u00edm zp\u016fsobem ihned smetena ze stolu. P\u0159itom, kde nen\u00ed jednota a spolupr\u00e1cemezi pedagogem [&hellip;]","datePublished":"2020-09-22","dateModified":"2023-06-08","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.venstar.cz\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.venstar.cz\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/f677d652d46d6437b40497bee38030612d53a3103b24904f519be33cae485306?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/f677d652d46d6437b40497bee38030612d53a3103b24904f519be33cae485306?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"venstar.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.venstar.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a279059_w4173_t1602661368.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.venstar.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a279059_w4173_t1602661368.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.venstar.cz\/dite-jako-modla\/","about":["Spole\u010dnost"],"wordCount":439,"articleBody":"&#13; Pro mnoho rodi\u010d\u016f jed\u00edt\u011b na prvn\u00edm m\u00edst\u011b. V\u00fdchovu d\u011bt\u00ed si p\u0159itom n\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed rodi\u010de pletou s uspokojov\u00e1n\u00edm pot\u0159eb d\u00edt\u011bte. V\u0161imn\u011bte si n\u011bkdy, jak se n\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed rodi\u010de chovaj\u00ed k u\u010ditelk\u00e1m v mate\u0159sk\u00e9 nebo z\u00e1kladn\u00ed \u0161kole. Objektivn\u00ed p\u0159ipom\u00ednka ze strany zku\u0161en\u00e9ho pedagoga je velmi impertinentn\u00edm zp\u016fsobem ihned smetena ze stolu. P\u0159itom, kde nen\u00ed jednota a spolupr\u00e1cemezi pedagogem a rodi\u010dem, sotva lze o\u010dek\u00e1vat \u00fasp\u011bchy v u\u010den\u00ed i ve v\u00fdchov\u011b. Toto je jen jeden z p\u0159\u00edpad\u016f.&#13; Je t\u0159eba, aby si rodi\u010de a p\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm matky uv\u011bdomili, \u017ee d\u011bti nepot\u0159ebuj\u00ed naprost\u00e9 sebeob\u011btov\u00e1n\u00ed rodi\u010d\u016f, ani rodi\u010de s vysok\u00fdmi p\u0159\u00edjmy. D\u011bti pot\u0159ebuj\u00ed zdravou v\u00fdchovu.&#13; Mnoho rodi\u010d\u016f svou rodi\u010dovskou zp\u016fsobilost m\u011b\u0159\u00ed sv\u00fdmi p\u0159\u00edjmy a nikoli svou rodi\u010dovskou zralost\u00ed. Samoz\u0159ejm\u011b d\u00edt\u011b pot\u0159ebuje b\u00fdt uspokojiv\u011b zaopat\u0159eno, ale nepot\u0159ebuje b\u00fdt p\u0159epe\u010dov\u00e1v\u00e1no. Naopak pot\u0159ebuje akceptuj\u00edc\u00ed l\u00e1sku, vhodn\u00e1 pravidla a ritu\u00e1ly a pozitivn\u00ed vzory.&#13; Dal\u0161\u00ed velkou chybou je, kdy\u017e rodi\u010de kv\u016fli d\u011bti naprosto zapomenou na sv\u016fj vlastn\u00ed vztah a p\u0159estanou ho udr\u017eovat. Nen\u00ed nijak p\u0159ekvapiv\u00e9, \u017ee pro samou l\u00e1sku k d\u011btem si rodi\u010de p\u0159estanou rozum\u011bt a rozvod se st\u00e1v\u00e1 nevyhnuteln\u00fdm, p\u0159itom by se tomu dalo p\u0159edej\u00edt, kdyby si oba rodi\u010de v\u010das uv\u011bdomili n\u011bkter\u00e9 v\u011bci.&#13; &#13; &#13; Chyby v dobr\u00e9m \u00famyslu&#13; V \u017eivot\u011b d\u011bl\u00e1me velk\u00e9 chyby. Nelze se tomu zkr\u00e1tka a dob\u0159e vyhnout. Ve v\u00fdchov\u011b d\u011bt\u00ed d\u011bl\u00e1me ov\u0161em ty nejz\u00e1va\u017en\u011bj\u0161\u00ed chyby v tom nejlep\u0161\u00edm \u00famyslu. To je na tom to smutn\u00e9.&#13; Zat\u00edmco mnoho let se u\u010d\u00edme \u010di studujeme, abychom byli schopni pracovat a u\u017eivit se,nikdo n\u00e1s nenau\u010d\u00ed, jak\u00fdm zp\u016fsobem m\u00e1me vlastn\u011b vychov\u00e1vat vlastn\u00ed d\u011bti. Na kni\u017en\u00edm trhu sice nalezneme p\u0159em\u00edru pedagogick\u00e9 a psychologick\u00e9 literatury, ale n\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed odborn\u00edci si vz\u00e1jemn\u011b odporuj\u00ed. Jak tedy b\u00fdt dobr\u00fdm rodi\u010dem v sou\u010dasn\u00e9 dob\u011b? Ur\u010dit\u011b je na m\u00edst\u011b p\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm zdrav\u00fd odstup. \u017d\u00edt pro rodinu je to nejkr\u00e1sn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed, ale p\u0159esto je velmi d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9, aby d\u00edt\u011b nebylo vychov\u00e1v\u00e1no jako mal\u00e1 modla, kter\u00e9 vn\u00edm\u00e1 sv\u00e9 za v\u0161ech okolnost\u00ed p\u0159ednostn\u00ed postaven\u00ed.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        4.3\/5 - (9 votes)        "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"D\u00edt\u011b jako modla","item":"https:\/\/www.venstar.cz\/dite-jako-modla\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]